This Month's Question....Do you and your partner use Sex Toys?

We were always hesitant to use toys at first because your brought up to think they are dirty. Now it is an extension of our love making helping to keep things fresh. Besides its a lot of fun to be bad sometimes.

Yes we do. We are a happily married couple in our forties. Why not? It only makes as good thing better!!!!!! Deb

Yes!Yes!Yes! He likes having them used on (and in) him almost as much as I love having them used on me. It just adds a little something extra to our loveplay.

My name is Lucy and I am 39 and my husband is 41, we have been married 13 years and we had a very good sex life until my husband's father passed away three years ago and my husband went into a severe depression.  My husband works out of the country and is gone 8-9 months out of the year, so needless to say when he was home, I NEEDED HIS ATTENTION.  He either couldn't or wouldn't take a hint, so two weeks ago , I asked him to go shopping with me and purposely went to a store close to a sex store and then I asked him would he like to go in that store and he said SURE.  We bought toys, games, oils, lotions, books.  The sex nor our marriage has ever been better.  I think using the sex toys reminded us what we had been neglecting was more important than we remembered.  I would recommend sex toys to anyone, especially married couples. Thanks.

no we do not use sex toys but I want to

Have not, but want to, he seems not to want to... But he likes to watch others, or at the very least he likes man magazines (he receives two) but does not seem to want to do this with me.

YES!! Magic Wand!!!

My husband and I use sex toys often. They offer new and exciting adventures, especially when combined with role playing. VB

Yes my partner and I use sex toys. What we enjoy the most are vibrators. My partner has a strap-on which has a cock shaped vibrator which has a vibrator in the shaft and one at the end which fits a bit in her pussy and mainly stimulates her clit. As her clit is stimulated more she becomes more aroused and my ass gets a really good work out. If we're alone I actually cum on the bed or wherever we maybe. When we're having a threesome with another girl, then she gets a real good fuck in whichever hole i might be in. Other toys that we have used are Ben Wah Balls and anal beads. We like to use these in conjunction with vibrators. The experience is so much more intense.

Yes we do, and he even let's me use some of them on him

My partner and I frequently use my vibrator during foreplay and during sex to liven things up.I also have a crop we use to give light whippings to each other. JOAN.

Yes we do. My husband likes to tie me up (I like it too) and use various toys on me. He likes me to use a vibrator on that spot between his anus and testicles, while I am performing oral sex on him!

In particular, the G-Spot "Wand"

Yes, we use toys! They can make sex a lot more interesting. We don't use them often, but when we do, we both have more intense orgasms!...............Sue

Hi, Yes we use sex toys to spice up our life. We've tried cock rings to keep me harder longer, with some satisfactory results. Vibrators don't seem to affect my partner, I think the noise is off putting. Soft dildos are good, especially the bigger ones as they stretch her vagina. Never underestimate how her vagina can be filled. She loves it being stretched, still, I can't get my fist inside and don't want to. Anal probes (dildos) have also been experimented with. Anal beads worked for a while. But above all, my wife likes my tongue, fingers and cock. In her mouth, in her cunt and up her ass. Who said sex was boring.

My husband and I have been together for almost 10 yrs and married for 2. We have basically grown together sexually and are always looking for something new to try. We have been using Sex Toys for a few yrs but they were mostly just for my benefit :). Lately we have been trying to experience the whole Tantra-Karma Sutra thing. It gives you the opportunity to relax with your partner and be open to new sexual experiences. My hubby enjoys the exploration of his taint (the space between your genitalia and anus) but wasn't all too keen on it the first time around. I think he was but he just didn't want me to think he was weird. Recently we've been using vibrators and beads, and my hubby wanted me to try the vibrator on him just to see how it felt. I was a little shocked at first but then way too into it. He was more than willing to receive and it turned out to be a memorable experience. It's not an everyday ritual so I don't worry about my hubby running off with the milkman.

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Yes, I use a sex toy - my dark blue sparkly vibrator named Angel (cos she takes me to heaven!) Unusual to have a girls name, but my daughter has a name which is usually male. I am 40 and been separated for the last 4 years. I have a causal partner and he enjoys using it with me - we bought it together about 2 months ago- my first sex toy. Maybe I'm a late starter.

we use sex toys most of the time i enjoy my partners tongue on my clit with a vibrator inserted at the same time.we have different size and shaped vibrators.

Yes, my partner and I use sex toys...I feel they enhance our lovemaking. We are both very comfortable and trusting in our relationship,..something I think you need in a monogamous relationship.