Hen's Night Out Idea's! 

We have been asked by so many brides and bridesmaids out there about ideas and games that can be played at the Hen's Night. Well, after some experimentation of my own, I have come up with some wild to mild ideas for a Hen's Night out!

Firstly, I discovered that you really need someone who is organised and motivated to help you prepare your Hen's night. You as the bride will be so busy with all the other preparations, so I stress that you DELEGATE these duties to a trusted friend, or the bridesmaids, besides, everyone loves to help plan a party.

If you have been asked to organise a Hen's Night, or the Bridal Shower, there are a few things that you need to think about. Firstly, you should get together with the rest of the Wedding party. Get together over coffee, and discuss where the party is to start, and more importantly, where the party will be held. Just a suggestion, but I think it's a really bad idea to have the Hen's Party the weekend before the wedding!                     

In the early discussions  with the wedding party, you need to discuss the preliminary details, such as do you want to stay in town, or go to another city, what would bride prefer, and more importantly, you need to keep finances in mind, discuss the expenses and how they will be divided. Once you have all this sorted out, you need to run it past the bride, after all, it is her night, and you want to respect her needs, wants and preferences.

So, once the big night is approaching, be sure that you have the bride's outfit for the night all sorted out! This is really important. Not only does it show that everyone put time and effort into planning her night, but it also attracts attention to the bride herself, which is the goal here! You need to dress the bride for the night, and announce the event to all, and there are lots of places where you can buy accessories! Try and get as many people involved, as you will find that they have some great ideas of their own. 

Now there are a gazillion things you can do on the Hen's Night, and it's limited only by your imagination. Here are just a few great one's we found were great fun!

Suck for A Buck Now as rude as this sounds, its actually great fun! All you need is a shirt for the Hen to wear, and you sew some lifesavers onto the shirt and have people you meet during the night bite one of the lifesavers off the shirt for $1.00. You can also do this with a candy necklace, and have the candies bitten off necklace! A different version from paying a buck is to have a list of dares that the bride has to complete for the night, and each time she does one, the man she was doing the dare with gets to bite off a lifesaver! This is great fun and get's others involved as well.                                    

"I Never..." This game is great fun! It's one of my favorites, and it's great to play at home before you hit the town., it gets the drinks flowing and you can make it specific to any given person! All you have to do is sit around with your friends, and start a phrase with "I Never..." Anyone who has done the act you are talking about has to drink a shot of  alcohol straight down. You can start with a simple one such as "I never lied about my weight" or "I never had sex in a car" or "I never wore a skirt without underwear" and so on. You will see some slowly down their drink, and hope you aren't watching! The drunker you get the more risque the "I never's..:" become!

Scavenger Hunt; Come up with a list of things that the Hen must obtain throughout the night, such as a man's business card, a condom from a guy's wallet, a pair of boxers or briefs and so on!  The Hen has to get all the things on the list so remember to be a little realistic with this one! There are a few different variations with this one. Instead of having items that she must obtain, you can make a list of dares that the Hen must perform, such as asking a guy for change for the condom machine, asking the bartender how to make a slippery nipple, handcuffing a guy to her and taking him to the bathroom, etc. This is limited only by your imagination, and the Hen's ego!

Pin the Tail... This is similiar to Pin the Tail on the Donkey, but ahem, you ah, pin the condom on the Naked Guy! It's called "Pin the Macho on the Man". This is a great fun game to play as an ice breaker, and the older guests will even get involved. You can buy this game already made up, but it's best to open it before hand, as there are heaps of penises that you have to cut out! You can even be creative, and use a photo of the groom and draw the body!

Truth or Dare; This is always a good one to play at home and you can continue it when you are out on the town. Be careful what you dare, she just may do it! 

Role Playing; When you send the invitations to the Hen's Night, let each guest know they have to dress up as their favorite character and they have to stay in character all night. They can be anyone they like, from Marilyn Munroe, to wilma Flintstone, to Malibu Barbie!

Truth or Dare with a Twist; All party guests sit around drinking their normal beverage of choice. In the middle is a shot of something really nice, e.g. Cocksucking Cowboy (1 part baileys, 1 part butterscotch schnapps). The  Host then asks each guest in turn an "I Never....." question - renamed Truth or Dare question. e.g. I never did a striptease for a partner, I never used a sex toy, I never had sex in a car etc etc. Each guest has the choice of answering Truth or Dare. Most guests will answer truth because they really want to drink the shot, however........ If the guest answers Truth they drink the shot, but must tell "where, when and who with".  If the guest answers Dare, they pick a dare out of the hat. A "Dare" can include anything humiliating e.g. Kiss a bald man with a tattoo, Get a guy's chest hair, Take off your bra while in the bar etc etc. The guest keeps the "Dare" until you go to the clubs. When carrying out a dare it must be witnessed by the host and the bride. The good thing about this game is that it starts are home and ends at a club. 

So, these are just a few of our suggestions, and we would love to see some wild photos from your Hen's Night!