I hear that all the time from men.  It’s a myth promoted by men who won’t put the effort into finding someone new. There give all sorts of reasons but there is no evidence to back up the claims that all the good ones are gone.  So what about women?  From time to time we do hear women say that all the good ones are either married or gay but again, there’s no proof to back this up.

Look at all the people who get divorced every year – these are all available people to date. In fact, in the United States alone, there are more than 104 million single people over the age of 18.  That line bears repeating, doesn’t it?  If you can’t find ONE person out of 104 million, perhaps you’re doing something wrong.

You need to ask yourself if you really do want to meet someone new or are you saying that because your family or friends or society in general expect you to be paired off.  People who aren’t emotionally ready to date — won’t.  It’s okay if you’re not ready because that’s how life works.  When you’re ready, you’ll find someone.

Now, if you ARE serious about looking for someone new to date, how are you going about it?  Sitting alone on your sofa isn’t going to make prince or princess charming enter your life.  You must enter theirs.  Start with online dating.  If you’re serious and want to join SexyAds.com, write to me and I’ll organize a free month of VIP membership.  They owe me a favor or two.

Got hobbies?  Join a club and find others who share your passion.  Like to cook?  Take a cooking class.  Enjoy gardening?  Join the local garden club.  Every community has one.

The point I’m trying to make is that you need to put yourself in front of prospective dates or they’ll never find you.  When you’re in their face, let the flirting begin.