The truth is, most women DO masturbate, just like men, perhaps not as often as men, but we still do it! We don’t talk about it, and we certainly don’t admit it!
As our readers know, we’re not too shy to bring up any subject, so why not masturbation. Today it’s still a word that makes us cringe, but let’s air it out so to speak.
Men are often fascinated by women masturbating, but it’s really no different to what they’re doing! The internet has thousands of websites dedicated to the subject, some good, others not so good. The truth is, men masturbate, so why not women!? Women are perhaps a little more discreet about it., and some women like to do it just as much as men do.
At a girls lunch, (don’t we always seem to be on lunch!) the subject of sex, and toys inevitably enters the conversation. I was a little shocked to hear some friends say they would much prefer to make themselves orgasm than to have their partner fumble around and not get anywhere. Besides, who knows our body better than ourselves? Some women will use a variety of toys to help them reach orgasm, while others can do it in minutes by themselves, with nothing but their agile fingers. However, what amazed us the most was that women are starting to talk openly about it, and we’re not afraid to let men know we enjoy it just as much as them! To spice up a sexual relationship, partners are now mutually masturbating, as erotic foreplay. Men find this extremely arousing (not all men mind you) and often say they wish their partner would do it more often. However, it’s a little different doing it in front of your partner, than doing it by yourself! Men on the other hand, don’t mind doing it for their partners!
There are many different things women use to masturbate, and one website we visited gave suggestion of salami, cucumbers, carrots, broccoli, bananas, massaging shower heads, ice cubes, straddling the edge of a bathtub, sitting on a washing machine, pillows, vibrating back massagers, spa jets, using vibrators while crossing your ankles (?) but the most common was a relaxing bubble bath, with the door locked, and some time to yourself!
